A guided ritual to attracting love into your life. One of the most common questions I get as a spiritual medium is, “Can you tell me if I will find love?” In a world with so much desire to seek outside of ourselves, I have found the ones that focus on loving themselves first are the ones that will always find a partner with love. As you follow the guidance below, only follow what feels in alignment with you. The most important part of this guided ritual is consistency. May you always discover the love for yourself first and then expand that love to the world around you. 

You’ll want to start this ritual at the beginning of a New Moon. A time for you to clear and welcome new energy into your life. The energy of this ritual will be worked with over the next month. New Moon to the day before the next New Moon.



What you’ll need:

  • A candle (preferably pink) 
  • 1 Rose Quartz Crystal
  • 1 Amazonite Crystal
  • 1 Love Mala Necklace. {Here’s my favorite! use code: jennyshanks for a discount}
  • Fresh Flowers
  • A Love Affirmation {you can create your own or use a suggested one from the list below}
  • Pen and Paper

The Ritual of Attracting Love Guided Steps.

Step 1 | Prepare: Preparing the day/night before you step into this ritual is key. You’ll want to create your Love Altar. As with any altar space, clearing anything not serving your soul, cleansing the space and setting the intention. Here’s a blog I wrote years ago about ways to clear negative or unwanted energy from your space. 

Step 2 | Program: Program your Crystals. You’ll program your crystals for love so they can work with you for this next month. You can program your crystals by holding them near or over your heart, closing your eyes and as you say the following aloud:

To the Universe, my higher self and the frequency of light and love. I ask that only the highest vibration of love connect with my higher self and I command these crystals to hold the intention of love, self-love, and the attraction of love. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you.

Step 3 | Getting Clear: During the New Moon, write down all the qualities and characteristics you desire of a partner. Give yourself grace with non-negotiables and desires. Desires can be thought of as the bonuses to what you will not lessen yourself for when it comes to your partner. Be specific. When you align with your list, write “Thank you, Thank you, Thank you,” sign your name and date it. Then place it under your mattress.

Step 4 | Aligning Part 1: On the New Moon, you will start your Love Ritual from New Moon to New Moon. You’ll want to check the calendar as the days vary between moon’s. You will complete this ritual the day before the next New moon. 

Sit in front of your altar, light your candle and hold your Love Mala. If you don’t have a Love Mala, you can hold your crystal. 

Holding one crystal bead starting at the center of the guru bead of your mala. You’ll recite your Love Affirmation aloud and then move to the next bead until you complete all 108 beads. 

This must be done DAILY between the New Moons. If you miss a day, you’ll have to wait for the next New Moon and start over. You can do this at any point in the day. The most important note to make is being in a high frequency state.

Step 5 | Aligning Part 2: Once you have finished reciting your Love Affirmation, place your mala back on your altar and grab your Rose quartz and Amazonite crystal. You’ll hold one in each hand, closing your eyes and saying aloud: 

I am loved. I am love. I am loveable. I am worthy of love.

Step 6 | Honoring: After you finish the steps above with your crystals in hand, hold a moment of gratitude. Feel into the space of love. When you feel called and ready, you’ll place your crystals back on your altar and blow out your candle. Remember you have to do this ritual daily from New Moon to New Moon. 

Love Affirmation Suggestions:

  • I am worthy of receiving love. 
  • The world is blessing me with love. 
  • I open my heart to experience love. 
  • Love is within and all around me. 

Why Rose Quartz and Amazonite?

Rose Quartz is the ultimate love stone and master healer. It promotes self-love & healing. It creates the energetic space for us to love ourselves first before sharing that love with others. It assists with learning forgiveness allowing us to open up space to welcome love in. 

Amazonite offers the energy of calmness. It helps to filter out stress, negative thoughts and any feelings of anxiety. While it supports the heart chakra, it also supports the throat chakra. It’s important we “speak” our intentions and desires for love in our life. As we focus on attracting love into our lives, Amazonite offers the peace and tranquility we often seek in a love partner. 

In Summary

Make sure to do this ritual daily from New Moon to New Moon. If you miss a day, you’ll have to start over. It’s ideal to use this ritual to call in new love, bring awareness to old relationship patterns that need to be released and what you most desire in a partner. This is a powerful ritual and I can’t wait to see all the magic that’s offered to you. Make sure to tag me on instagram @spiritual_medium_jenny or on Facebook in our Be The Light group!